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Hopefully someday, body shaming will be a thing of the past — and a lot of celebrities are trying to make that happen ASAP. This month, Meghan Trainor pulled one of her music videos after realizing production had given her waist a more flattering silhouette.

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It does happen!! Rogaine, much? I'm the queen here, and what I say goes. At the same time, we shouldn't hate ourselves nor claim to be beautiful. You won't know until you meet. My being so tiny doesn't help my arguments hold any water when I tell them that they're size isn't what takes away from their beauty - it's their attitudes ABOUT their size. I'm FAT. I realized it was MY problem, in my own damn head.

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Yes, I knew all this too at the time, but I still wanted him to be aware. Your mileage may vary, obviously, but if you want to slim down a little before meeting him, start today and you can definitely do it. Have you gotten professionally fitted for a bra?

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I may be teeny tiny but I won't fucking break because I'm made of flesh not fine porcelain. So even if he says "no thanks," do NOT take it as a reflection of your self-worth. In times or places where poverty is the norm, fat is abundance and is beautiful.

Shut down negative body talk: Silence the shame. I love the look on peoples' faces when they see how I can move and that I'm just as good as anyone else in my troupe. Thank goodness I didn't talk myself out of it and rocked it. If I could make friends with a nice homely guy and get him to see past my exterior and appreciate my "great personality" which I've been told I possess oh so many timesI could get a boyfriend.

My experience with long distance communications of a romantic nature, even with extensive pictures involved, is that it's really hard to see how things will feel in person.

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I didn't read any of the other comments but I think if it's meant to work out it will. That is absolute crap. What's even better is that he thinks I'm gorgeous, just the way I am. Weight comes and goes. He never told her because he cared about her and didn't want her health to suffer. I know being overweight can be a deal breaker and I need to let him know that I'm, well, fat, before spending weeks talking with him on the phone, both of us getting attached and then him being possibly horrified when he meets me.

After all, he had the same stuff going on, right?

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I have a wonderful boyfriend who wouldn't even think of dating a skinny chick. You put to words what I have always wanted out of myself but have yet to come to terms with it. Conventionally pretty women, somewhat overweight women, somewhat skinny women, women with faces that aren't what we're told is classically attractive. My husband tells me on a daily basis that I'm beautiful and he absolutely loves my body as much as he loves me.

Maybe he's fat.

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You could post a picture on facebook. I am one of your newer followers, thanks to Rachele and over the last few weeks of reading your post every single one leaves me thinking. You can tell I'm not, you know, Jessica Alba.

The odds are well in your favour you will receive back a positive or even complimentary response. Work out, eat better and attain the body you desire.

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If the physical attraction does exist We're all human and none of us are perfect, just keep being yourself and meet him as you are--exchanging a few full-length flattering pics never hurt anyone, but it's not necessary. Thank you for this post, I'm going to bookmark it and go back to it when I need it. There are serious actors who are fat or even just a little chubby and it's not a big deal. Be as kind about his flaws as you want him to be about yours.

I really doubt that you are "fat. Less than ideal Ask the mutual friend who introduced us to let him know, gently, that I am kind of fat. I think "fat" "skinny" and "normal" girls alike all need to start seeing themselves as something much more than a sexual object When I shared it on Facebook, one of my friends a skinny dude, if it matters made a point that I wanted to share, in relation to the "Fat chicks bang hot guys all the time. Instead of engaging in a game of 'who looks worse?

I think you should ask him. I think I will just try and keep this up with the added incentive of, uh… radiance. I've always thought they were gorgeous. Or do you just want him to comfortable with who you are now?

I had Met Mr G when I was at the heaviest I've ever been in my entire life. Maggie April 30, at PM. But, just so's you know, In person, I'm kind of ordinary and short and round — quite round — and uh… yeah. Send him a copy of Baby's Got Back and see how he reacts?

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One-hundred pounds later, guess what Third, don't ever tell anyone a. The commercials, the skinny actresses, and the fairy tale Hollywood scene are all smoke and mirrors, my friends.

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If you aren't beautiful to yourself, work on your health and weight in whatever direction until you are. What an ego-boost he is, every day telling me that I'm beautiful. First, the obesity is brought into play, which people ridicule to no end. Long conversations and texts have escalated into jokes about what are you wearing and, uh, jokes about phone sex and how much he likes my voice and wants to meet me.

You're forgetting that you could meet him and not be attracted to him for a variety of reasons. And for good reason — according to a study done by Glamour magazineon average, women have 13 negative thoughts about their bodies daily. I do try to tolerate my fatness and to silence that inner critic, but sometimes I forget how fun and freeing it is to just decide to love who I am!

After 20 years of struggling with weight, I bullied my doctors into sending me to a specialist.

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I wasn't sure I was attracted to him at first, but I went out with him and came to truly appreciate him and be attracted to him. Ya know, that kind of stuff that is not really talking about your weight. I mean, sure, get in shape if you want, do it in order to feel more attractive if you want, but don't apologize to this guy for something that doesn't require an apology. Note This is not meant to be a formal definition of thick girls like most terms we define on Dictionary.

If his answer is "Well, I workout three times a day in preparation for my next Ironman!

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Are you skinny? I've been overweight throughout my teens, twenties and now I'm in my 30s. Damn, girl! In my day to day life I am quite logical and matter of fact I'm a scientist. I'm close to pounds and almost 40 years old.

Unknown March 19, at PM. I am standing here applauding!!!

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I refuse to watch TV and don't have one in my home. We get a hard time in life sometimes even if you don't believe it.

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And although I am not currently satisfied with my extra poundage, I do not consider myself an eyesore, and neither does my man friend! Felicia Garcia April 30, at PM. I mean, all women SAY this, sure, but at least then it's out there, and you'll be able to judge how much he really cares or doesn't from ensuing conversations.

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I'm walking every day, cutting out chocolate and coffee and swilling green smoothies like my life depends on it. Yes, what Justin said. Complicating things even further, we can't meet face to face for at least another three months. This is a first, believe me. And to shut the fuck up about being fat and let him decide for himself if he liked me. I read the question carefully to see if there had been a point in the past where you'd told him you were much thinner. First of all, n th ing the you're-not-fat comments.